...to get it together

...the house, the routine...

Since school has gone into session our home is CHA-O-TIC.

I thought the start of school meant routines, schedules, drowsy children in the evenings.

As my grandpa would have said....

I THOUGHT WRONG!

I am going to be honest...

I am NOT going to win mother-of-the-year.
In fact, I am quite certain I am not even allowed (according to my four-year-old) to be a contestant.

Let me explain (all from today):

Scenario 1

My little girls wanted to be enrolled in dance class.  I started them at this small dance studio in a nearby town.  For two weeks now I have schlepped child #4 and child #3 back and forth to their two classes.  They love these classes!  They can't wait for these classes.  They even dress in cute little dance outfits for these classes.  This evening after said class daughter number four said,

Audrey: "Mom I thought you said you were going to sign me up for dance class?"
Me:  "Um...we were just at dance Audrey."
Audrey:  "Mom, when are you going to take us to REAL dance classes?  You know with a real dance teacher!  This class is NOT a real dance class.  A real dance teacher has to wear real dancing clothes and she has to dance...FOR-REAL!!"

Sigh...

Dance class.  F

Scenario 2

I have learned that lists seems to work well in our house.  I am certain I have mentioned this several times.  The kids have a morning routine list and an after school routine list.

The LIST is supposed to take the place of my nagging.  A typical list in the morning looks like this:

Get dressed.
Make bed.
Pack backpack.
Eat breakfast
Brush Teeth
Comb Hair
Put on Shoes.

I feel like the list is pretty all-inclusive for the morning.  For the most part I leave them alone as long as they appear to be making progress on this list.  This morning when it was time to leave for the bus, #2 wasn't ready to go.  Apparently he couldn't find his shoes to put them on.  (He left them outside by the trampoline yesterday afternoon).

"Mom, I was going to put my shoes on but I couldn't find them...you should put 'find shoes' on the list and then I would have been ready."

Sigh...

List creating:  F

Scenario 3

dinnertimebathtimebedtime

Let me translate:

Dinner time.
Bath time.
Bed time.

Its all one not-very-fun-period-of-time in our house.

Whining.  Pleading.  Yelling.

And those are my behaviors.

Add the kids to the mess and you get:  Pushing.  Swiping.  Poking.  Scratching.

When I walk up the stairs now in the evening during this super-stressful period of time Abbey likes to ask,

"Mom, are you turning into a witch yet?"

Sigh.

Calm & Peaceful evenings:  F

...to visit the Cider Mill

...what a great time spent together today!

There is a local Cider Mill and while it is small, the kids look forward to going to it each year!  There is nothing quite like fresh apple cider and hot donuts on a brisk fall morning.

And of course nothing like your mom, starting the morning off by making you all pose for the camera:

Neither photo was successful...

However, the apples were perfect!

I think Audrey filled the entire bag herself!  

The donuts 'o' mazing!  (As you can see by Audrey and Paddy's expressions!)

And the company was delightful...

And I even got to pose with my delighted Kindergartener!

Here is another mandatory attempt at capturing our familial bliss...

After we visited the cider mill we headed Thompson Park in Watertown.  The kids had a great time playing on the equipment...

trying out the monkey bars:

going down the slide:

getting serious about races:

persevering to win them:

and yes...playing for a long while in the rocks.

We were lucky to have spent such a great morning together.

...to get started on a new project

...isn't it lovely!

Well...it is going to be.

I have been searching for one of these beauties for a long while.

I am not going lie, this piece in a rough shape.  I see lots of sanding and polishing in my future.

But when its finished it will be perfect.

Perfect for what I am not sure.

My original intent, when I began looking for an old card catalog, was to find a way to organize all of my girls' American Girl doll clothes by outfit.  Silly maybe.  However, as I have mentioned before, I like 'things' to have all their pieces.  The small drawers (complete with the dividers in the middle) would be a functional way to store the outfits.

However, I think this piece is going to be way too nice to hide in the toy room.

Maybe it will go into our entryway to store hats and gloves?  Maybe near the office to hide office supplies?  Maybe near the laundry room to hide treasures found?

No matter.

I think it's going to be a while before I need to find a place for it.

...to enjoy the lovely evening

...with Mark's coworkers and their spouses

Mark and I decided to host a gathering with all of the field grade officers and their spouses (about 50 people) in the brigade this past weekend.  There are many new majors to the brigade (6 battalions and several SFAT teams) and we thought it would be a great opportunity for them to mingle in a casual environment before the impending deployment next month.

I wanted the evening to be low-key and comfortable for our guests.

I mulled over the menu (and consulted my friend Kris (who is an amazing chef) for quite a while before I settled on...

Main Dishes

• Baked Carnitas (these were a huge hit)
• Taquitos
• Taco Salad

these were served with Cilantro Dip & Taco Salad Dressing.

Appetizers

• Queso
• Taco Dip
• Buffalo Dip
• Guacamole 

Desserts

• Fruit Pastry
• Cream Cheese and Chocolate Chip Cake
• Pretzel bites (Peanut butter and chocolate chip cookie dough)
• Chocolate Chip Cookies

I was worried about so many things...
-having enough food (there was plenty (too much taco salad).
-serving it hot (thank goodness Amy & Meghan were willing to pre-heat their ovens!)
-traffic flow (no troubles)
-being able to mingle (thanks to our sitter I was definitely able to enjoy myself).

Here are a few photos of the evening:

the backyard transformed

drink area

S'more station

another view

the fire pit

serving ware

the living area

the main food area

desserts

The evening would not have been a success with Meghan's late night help frying taquitos, Donnie's help setting up chairs, Amy's help assembling taco salads and fruit pastries, and Carolyn's help behind the scenes for the duration of the event (refilling platters, keeping the food hot, washing dishes).

Meghan also made the most amazing dessert ever...no kidding the guests were raving about the pretzel bites AND she stomped through the fields with me cutting greens (weeds) for the centerpieces.

Amy also made several trips back and forth to her home for dishes, extra pyrex, crock pots, and babysat all four of my children (and our dog) for the entire evening!

Thank you girls...shall we plan a holiday extravaganza?

It was a fun night.

...to send my babies off to school

...K, 4 & 5.

I am not going to sugar coat the morning.  There were a lot of tears.  Big crocodile, nearly-have-trouble-breathing tears.

Ummm... they were my tears.

I have no idea what put me over the edge...maybe it was watching Isabella get ready so independently this morning, maybe it was the thought of her changing buses at the middle school, maybe it was just because I want so many great things for lil' ones...

I tried my best NOT to embarrass Isabella...she hates it when I cry in public.  

When we got to school this morning I channeled my emotions into caputuring the Kodak moments.

William & Mrs. Rios

Abbey & Miss Abrams

It took all of my self-control to not go visit Isabella in her class for a photo with her teacher...

(Fifth grade is considered middle school and she starts an hour earlier than the other kids.)

I am super lucky to have an especially adoring pair of eyes on Abbey this Kindergarten year.  Amy is an aid in her class and snapped a few photos of Abbey and her bestie Luke.

I love that they get to be together another year!

The day was a success.  

There were no meltdowns this afternoon and it the dinnertime-bathtime-bedtime routine was pretty smooth.

Tomorrow is another day.

Perhaps this little gal and I need to celebrate?

I see Starbucks and Pedicures in our future....

Maybe at 11:00 tomorrow morning?

...to enjoy the last day of summer

...as we get ready for the new school year.

Today was the official end of the summer of 2013 for the Crow family crew.
They have traveled.
They swam.
They have had ice cream and smores and soda.
They visited parks, went on bike rides, and jumped for hours on the trampoline.
They got sunburned, bit by mosquitos, and stung by bees.
They have had all the fun that there is to be had in one summer.

I can tell it is time for routine because...

Sharing has shifted to bossing.
Good natured wrestling has morphed into fighting.
Teamwork has mutated into tattle-taleing.

I have loved the summer we had.
I am going to miss them while they are away during the day.

I love them with all my being.

I can only hope their teachers see the gifts they possess as well.

...to share some photos

...from our Labor Day weekend trip(s)

We started off the weekend with a trip to West Point where we spent some time at Trophy Point.

The kids climbed the cannons...

Ate snacks with their friends...

and even wrestled with their very favorite 'old' babysitter on the lawn.

In the evening we enjoyed watching the Black Knights beat Morgan State....

 Loved seeing the Mule...

And they even got to see some Star Wars characters...

Most favorite though was watching the cadets jump into the stadium.

Just in case you were wondering...

1) Isabella opted out of the football game because she spent the night with her best friend from West Point.

2) William wasn't in the Mule or the Star Wars pictures because he was pouting.  Yup.  It is true.  

At most any point during out weekend at least one of us was pouting...(I happen to be pretty good at it myself.  Perhaps that is where the kids get it?)

Anyway, I digress.

The second part of our trip was a whirlwind two nights up in Boston to see Aunt Lisa, Uncle Jason, and Cousin G.

Such a fun time although I didn't capture too many Kodak moments.

These were a few keepers...

Isn't our nephew adorable!

Playing some chicken in the pool...

And I am sorry to say (to Ellen & Fred) this is the only picture that I took of the five of them together...

and its not even a good one.  

Fail.  On.  Photo.  Taking.

For the weekend.